Sunday, April 4, 2010

Have to send invite to someone who's not coming?

a save-the-date with a red heart denoting the date on a calendar
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Now here's a fun topic brought up on's message board:

I know first-hand that people are not going to be able to make it. I have a number of people who received the [Save the Date] but have told me that they will not be able to come -- out of town, new babies, etc. Do I technically have to send an invite to someone who is not coming? To me it is a waste of paper, postage and time. But I also want to be polite since they did receive a STD. I was also thinking of maybe sending a scaled-down version of the invitation, not in a pocketfold, asking [them] to RSVP online, [with] fewer embellishments. They would never know anyway... unless of course they read this! (See full thread by clicking here.)

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